When it comes to lingerie, it’s easy to fall in love with the beauty of lace, silk, and all things delicate—but building a lasting lingerie wardrobe goes beyond impulse purchases. Whether you’re just beginning to invest in quality underpinnings or looking to refresh your top drawer, a thoughtful approach ensures your lingerie not only looks beautiful but works for your lifestyle and stands the test of time.
Here’s your step-by-step beginner’s guide to building a lingerie wardrobe that’s equal parts timeless, functional, and effortlessly chic.
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1. Start With You
Lingerie drawer essentials are never one-size-fits-all. What works for one person might not make sense for another, so the key is tailoring your lingerie wardrobe to your lifestyle and wardrobe.
Consider:
• What colours do you wear most often?
If you wear a lot of whites and pale tones, you’ll want underpinnings in nude, blush, or white. If your wardrobe leans dark, black or deep-hued lingerie may be more practical—and it’ll help prevent colour transfer.
• What necklines do you wear?
If you mostly wear high necks, your everyday bra options can be simpler. But if you rotate through plunging, square, or off-the-shoulder styles, you’ll need versatile bras to match.
• How much support do you need?
If you need more structure, underwire bras or supportive wireless styles are key. Smaller cup sizes may have more flexibility with bralettes, bandeaus, or even nipple covers.
• What do your days look like?
If you are running around after children all day, comfort may be the number 1 priority for everyday essentials. Whereas if you are working in a professional setting, support or style may be the priority.
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2. Build the Foundation with Everyday Essentials
Start with lingerie that works hard for you every day. These pieces should be comfortable, versatile, and invisible under most outfits:
• Seamless nude and black bras – Ideal for a smooth silhouette under almost anything.
• Matching briefs, bikinis, or thongs – Great for feeling pulled together, even on busy mornings.
• Wire-free options – For off-duty days when comfort is king.
We love the Mey Joan, or Cassiopee Lace for Full cup support. Styles like the AUbade Rosessence spacer or Simone Perele Subtile for less coverage or plunge options. And the Chantelle Norah wireless or the Mey Glorious Bralette for Wire-free or Bralette options.
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3. Add Specialty Styles for Versatility
Not every outfit works with a classic T-shirt bra. Round out your basics with lingerie that supports different silhouettes:
• Strapless bras
• Convertible or racerback styles
• Plunge and deep plunge bras
• Bras for a square neckline
• Non-bra options like nipple covers or breast tape
Pro tip: Some everyday essentials can also double as specialty bras. For example, a T-shirt bra with a J-hook or convertible straps can transform into a racerback—giving you support and versatility in one sleek piece. It’s a smart way to stretch your wardrobe and reduce clutter in your drawer.
These specialty pieces ensure you’re ready for any outfit—no last-minute wardrobe panics.
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4. Invest in Confidence Pieces
Everyone deserves lingerie that makes them feel stunning. These are the pieces you reach for when you want to create a moment—whether that’s a date night or a luxurious evening alone.
Try:
• Stretch lace bodysuits like the Janira Greta Bodysuit—flattering and ideal for layering or wearing solo. Or supportive showstoppers like the Panache Ana Plunge Bodysuit—designed for fuller busts, blending comfort, lift, and allure.
• Romantic chemises and robes like the Eberjey Mademoiselle Set—perfect for self-care evenings or weekend getaways.
• Beautiful Sets like the Aubade Vibes set or the Panache Allure set for a boost of confidence
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5. Quality Over Quantity
Instead of stocking up on cheap bras that stretch and sag after a few washes, opt for high-quality pieces made to last. You’ll feel the difference—and so will your wardrobe.
Look for:
• Reinforced stitching and stretch-retaining elastic
• Natural fabrics like silk or cotton for breathability
• Trusted brands known for fit and craftsmanship
An Oscalito silk chemise or boxer set, for example, is a timeless piece that feels luxurious every time you slip it on.
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6. Care Is Key
Even the best lingerie won’t last if it’s not cared for properly. A few golden rules:
• Hand wash in cold water with gentle detergent, or use a lingerie bag on the delicate cycle.
• Air dry only—never tumble dry lace, silk, or elastic fabrics.
• Store smart—Lay flat in drawers to protect their shape and keep delicate fabrics away from zippers or rough materials.
See our Care Guide blog HERE for more tips to making lingerie last.
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7. Build Slowly & Intentionally
There’s no need to overhaul your drawer overnight. Building a lingerie wardrobe is like developing your personal style—it’s a journey.
Start with the essentials. Then, as your style evolves, gradually introduce statement pieces that reflect your personality. Revisit your lingerie drawer each season to rotate in fresh favourites and let go of what no longer fits or feels good.
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Sample Lingerie Drawer: What’s Inside?
Here’s a snapshot of what a well-rounded lingerie drawer might include:
Everyday Staples:
• 1-2 nude seamless bras or bralettes
• 1-2 black seamless bras or bralettes
• 1–2 comfortable wireless bras or bralettes
Specialty Bras (If/As Needed):
• 1 strapless bra
• 1 convertible or racerback bra
• 1 plunge or deep V bra
• Nipple covers or adhesive options
Confidence Pieces:
• 1-2 Sexy lace set (maybe with a garter belt or stockings if you really want to spice up your confidence pieces)
• 1 lace bodysuit
• 1 silk or lace chemise with a matching robe
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Ready to Build Your Dream Lingerie Wardrobe?
Explore our curated collection of lingerie designed to flatter, support, and inspire. Whether you’re shopping for your first lace bralette or indulging in a silk night set, we’re here to help you feel confident—every single day.
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